Trust fall on the Lord

Do you believe God is good? Do you believe He is perfect? Do you believe He has a purpose and plan for your life? Do you understand that the Lord will never leave you or forsake you and that knows us better than we know ourselves? Do you know that you know that He loves you? If you answered yes to any or all of those questions, then let me ask this: "Why do we struggle with fully trusting Him?"

If He is all of those things, does all of those things, knows all of those things, (and so much more,) then why do we doubt His faithfulness? Why do we worry about our future? Why do we struggle with obeying and following Him sometimes? You might say; I do trust Him. Maybe we say it, but our actions and thoughts don't always show it. Deep down, if we are relationship with the Lord, we know we CAN trust Him, we think we trust Him, but we sometimes give in to fear, doubt, worry, unbelief. We might not admit it or even realize it. But we do. We are not perfect. We forget what He has done for us and who He is. If we fully understood the depths of who He is, we would not be human. We can never fully grasp just how much He loves us. Just how good He is. But I know I went to spend my life getting to know Him more and more. Growing to trust him more and more.

Have you ever heard the saying: "Trust needs to be earned."? Well let me ask you this, has God earned your trust? Really and truly? Look at everything He has done for you: dying on the cross for your sins, forgiving you for everything you've ever done and will do, welcoming you into an intimate relationship with Him personally, never leaving you or forsaking you, and so much more, is not deserving of your trust, then I don't know what is.

Think about someone in your life who you trust. As an example, I trust my dad. He always gives me wisdom, he loves me and shows me affection, he has compassion and forgiveness when I make mistakes, the list goes on. Is he perfect? Absolutely not. Does he make mistakes? Of course. But do I still trust him? Absolutely. How much more can we trust our Heavenly father, who never needs to apologize to us? Who loves us unconditionally and always takes care of us? You might say, well what about these bad things that have happened to me? Why wasn't God taking care of me? Guess what? There's an answer.

Say you fall down and scrape your knee. Or someone else is mean to you and says hurtful things. Is that your dad's fault? No, of course not. Taking care of you means that when you go to him, he cleans your wound and gives you a band-aid. He encourages you and speaks truth over the awful things that people said. That is what taking care of you means. And in the same way, our heavenly Father is someone we can always turn to when bad things happen, because He will comfort us and bring healing. He is always taking care of you. You can trust Him.

You might think, well He is God, and He can do ANYTHING! So why doesn't he stop the bad things from happening in the first place? If God did not allow ANY BAD THING to ever happen, then there would be no free will. People's right to choose right from wrong would be taken away, because they could never commit a wrong. God loves each of us enough that He allows us free will. This means that some people will choose to hurt others. But it also means that others will choose to follow Him and put their trust in Him. And when we do, He will never let us go. Because He is a good Father. WE CAN TRUST HIM! I choose today to do a trust fall into the arms of the Lord. I jump, and know that He will catch me. I fall, and I know that He will grab me and hold me tight. He will never let me go. Do you trust the Lord today? Jump. Take a leap of faith. Because He will catch you.

Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to Him and He will make your paths straight."

3 keys to being a person of HONOR.

We like to leave our options OPEN. At least most people in our generation do. If we make plans too far in advance, something better might come along! We don't want to miss out on the best things in life. So if that happens, we should just cancel our original plans to go with the bigger and better option. But we can't do that, because we've been taught to honor our promises. To keep our word. How can we rectify the two? So we think: how about we just don't make a commitment in the first place? Then, we can wait until the best opportunity comes along, and commit to that. This way, we are keeping our word and getting to do the best things that come along!

Let's say you love camping. Your friend invites you to go camp out for the weekend and you don't have any plans, nothing hindering you. How easy is it to make that commitment? No brainer, piece of cake. Of course you'll go. It'll be FUN! Well, what about if you already committed to volunteering with your church at a yard sale that Saturday? that gets a lot tougher. Do you miss out on all the fun you could have with your friend doing something you love, or do you volunteer your time doing something that requires sacrifice? Okay fine, I'll honor my commitment even though it does not sound as appealing. Great. 

So, let's think... how can I be a person of honor and still get to have fun? Hey, here's a solution! Let's PROCRASTINATE on giving an answer, so I can keep my options open. I'll tell my church that I might be able to come to the yard sale, but I'm not 100% sure yet. Then, if something better comes along, I can say YES, because TECHNICALLY, I did not fully commit to doing anything else. Then I'm not breaking my commitment if I say I'm not able to go. This is how I can still be a person of honor! Yeah. No. 

1). STOP PROCRASTINATING TODAY. (NOT TOMORROW.) Let's admit it, even if we don't realize it, this is how our culture has evolved. We wait until the last minute to do everything; probably without thinking about why we are actually doing it. We don't want to nail ourselves down. We want to honor our commitments. I'm guilty of it just as much as the next person! "That paper is due tomorrow; I'm supposed to pay that bill; I need to let them know if I'm going to be a camp counselor this year..." The list goes on. What if being a person of honor doesn't just mean honoring your word? What if being a person of honor means laying down your own desires and wants to honor others?! Even if it means not doing the fun things you want sometimes, even if it means having to (God forbid!) make a COMMITMENT! And let me tell you, every day spent procrastinating is another day spent WORRYING about that thing that you know you have to do or say. It is hanging over your head. Do it today.

2). GIVE YOUR WORD. COMMIT! Being a person of honor doesn't just mean keeping your word, it means GIVING your word. In advance. You are showing honor to someone by telling them that you are committed to them; by giving them notice to plan. You are honoring them and their time by showing you care enough about them to give them notice of what your plans are. Treat someone with the same respect you want to be treated with. Do you want people to tell you if they are coming to your birthday party? To your wedding? To any other event or party you plan? Of course, because then you can plan accordingly. You can be prepared. I am always SO GRATEFUL to the people who tell me YES or NO! And I grumble and think annoyed thoughts with those people who just won't get back to me. And yet, I am that person who is needing to be contacted again and again to ask what my plans are. How hypocritical! "I know my God, that you test the heart and are pleased with integrity. All these things I have given willingly and with honest intent. And now I have seen with joy how willingly your people who are here have given to you. (1 Chron. 29:17)

3). FOLLOW THROUGH JOYFULLY. KEEP YOUR WORD. Like I said before, we usually already know this part; that being a person of honor means keeping your word. But we sometimes do it begrudgingly. We need to have an attitude that says, "this is the commitment that I made, and I'm going to not only honor my word, but honor the person and situation by doing it joyfully." How loved and cared for will someone feel if you make a commitment, and then do what you say you would do, but give them attitude? Talk about what you COULD be doing instead. "Do everything without grumbling or arguing that you may become blameless and pure children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation. Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky." (Phil. 2:14-16). 

Ask yourself today, Am I person of honor? Are there areas where I need to stop procrastinating and make a decision? Do I give my word? Do I keep my word with joy? Do I treat others with honor and respect the way I want to be treated?

"Lord, I ask you to help me stop procrastinating. To be honorable. To love others and prefer them above myself. I understand it is the greatest sacrifice to sometimes lay down my own desires of what I think is more 'fun' in order to do what you call me to do with a joyful heart. Help me to make wise decisions and commit and follow through on my decisions. It is only by your strength I can do all things, even when it is hard for me. Nothing is impossible for you. Give me your eyes to see things from your perspective! Amen."


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